Are you frustrated that your relationship doesn’t have the magic and romance that it once had? What do you do when your sex life takes a dive? You are not alone. Living with the same partner for a long time can become stable and comfortable and as a result, can also kill the spark that made your relationship so special. Should you go out and cheat or should you do some research on how to improve your sex life? If you truly value your relationship with your partner you would pick the 2nd choice.
Here are some simple, fun and creative ideas to reignite that flame of passion:
(1) Become kids again.
If you and your partner are walking by the park, visit the swings and give your partner a ride.
(2) Fun with water
On a hot day, buy two large water pistols and take them to the beach. Take them out and pass one to your partner and then have a huge water fight.
(3) Give each other a massage
Take the time to give each other a massage. Try mixing some rose oil with almond oil to make cheap massage oil.
(4) Bring back her fond childhood memories
Contact your partner’s family and ask if there was anything she always wanted as a kid. For example, if she always wanted a Barbie Doll, buy one for her next birthday. She will not only appreciate the gift, but also the fact that you were thoughtful enough to find out what she always wants.
(5) Do something romantic!
During your picnic at the beach, draw out the shape of a big heart in the sand. Sit inside the heart and cuddle your partner as you admire the setting sun. When the night comes, spread a mat on the ground and get together some snacks, chocolates, and champagne. Lie down on the mat with your partner and watch the stars together.
(6) Show your partner how much you appreciate her.
Leave a long-stem rose at a place where she could easily find it, with a note on it saying: “Thank you for coming into my life.”
(7) Give her pleasant surprises
At times, do surprise her with some small gifts or some simple gestures that she will appreciate. This really requires you to be concerned enough to know what she wants. To be effective, you must do this out of sincerity or at the bottom of your heart. The problem with a lot of men is that they only give presents or treat their wives slightly better because they feel guilty over some matters. Needless to say, some wives will suspect their husbands may be cheating on them. Believe me, even if your wife is not as clever as you think, you can’t fool her. That’s why I want to emphasize that the act of giving her pleasant surprises must be done out of sincerity.
(8) Look for ways to spice up your sex life. How?
(a) Changing the place where you have sex.
This is the best way to add spice to your sex life with your partner. After making love in the same old place all the time, you will get bored as time goes on. How about making love in the bathroom, on the kitchen table or at any place where you can have some privacy?
(b) Be a bit more adventurous and try some new sex positions.
It helps to take the time to learn more about the positions of the karma sutra.
(c) Learn how to talk dirty.
Some women get to turn on or love it when men talk down and dirty to them. You can find all kind of guides on how to talk dirty in books or you can “Google” for talk-dirty tips from the Internet.
(d) Perform oral sex.
Besides genital penetration, there are some other ways to satisfy a woman sexually. Oral sex is one of the ways that can give her great satisfaction. By incorporating oral sex (of course with the consent of your lover) during foreplay, you can “buy some time” to get her to reach orgasm. Men must have the patience and open mind to discuss oral sex before trying it. They should know how the woman would like him to do it to her otherwise it is not going to help. When giving oral sex to a woman, the man has to understand this is only for the pleasure of the woman so her likes and dislikes are very important. Sometimes men don’t like the idea of giving oral sex to their women because of the smell of vagina, women should understand this and take shower and wash “her area” properly. Doing this properly with patience and mutual understanding can enhance sex life and build a strong relationship.
A man-woman relationship is like cultivating a plant. Both parties at times have to play the role of a gardener, regularly provide enough of water and fertilizer that suits the plant, so it will grow, flourish and/or bear fruits.
I wish you will have an everlasting and limitless joyful relationship with your the other half!
Like most guys, I’m interested in sexual matters. Sex is good, fun and is one of the most wonderful human activities. A fulfilling, enjoyable and satisfying sex life can act as a sort of elixir in improving our health. It works the same way as an apple a day keeps the doctor away. I am not going to suggest to you how many times a week you should have sex. But I am going to tell you that a regular flow of enjoyable sex keeps the doctor away longer and poorer. I think the governments of countries that have aging population should encourage their folks to have the more active sex life as one of the ways to cut down on rising healthcare costs. While taking Viagra can give you an immediate boost in sexual performance and allowing you to have as much sex as a “Tiger”, I don’t think this is an option for everyone. Some of us may get side effects in taking Viagra. I advocate approaching this in a way that does not rely on pills, which is a slower but more sustainable. I am sure you won’t want to spend a good part of your fortune to “feed” those pharmaceutical companies which are always trying to sell you ever more expensive drugs. It is one of our basic human rights to have an enjoyable, drug-free sex life! Do you want to find out more about how you can increase the “flame of passion” in your sex life?